Monday, April 22, 2013

Blog #10: Hippie Grandma



I was rail thin with no boobs, Johnine Lynn Denny-Waller tells me, describing her adolescent body type when she was growing up. She spoke hoarsely over the phone, in a voice that only a grandmother would sound like after sixty two years of using it.  I could imagine her, still rail thin with no boobs, in her little home that she shares with her husband, my Papa, and her Yorkshire Terrier whom she has named Stuart. She smells of patchouli; strongly so. She is sitting on her vintage 50’s sofa that was her mother’s before her. It is the only thing normal in her living room. The other things are Native America artifacts, and different sculptures of turtles, her spirit animal. Neither of them is Native American, although they wish they were, and follow the customs and traditions as if they were their own. Her legs crossed, wearing ballerina slippers. I never asked her why she wore them, never thought it was strange. 

Just like I never thought it was strange that she nicknamed me Pickle-Pumpkin when I was younger and has called me it since. Just like how she used to take me to the back of a pub in order to purchase live fish for me to swim with in her pool. You used to marry them, she said fondly, most likely looking out her window to its place of occurrence. Just like how she used to spread burnt sage ashes throughout my room because it kept the demons away, in the attempt of reducing my bad dreams. She slept in the nude, something my sister whispered to me at the dinner table one time when we were visiting, making my eyes go wide and my face blush. I didn’t ask her about that either. I’m not sure I want to know whether or not it’s true. I thought that’s how all grandmas were, no make-up, no bra, terrible cook. She was consistent in one thing; she always encouraged me to follow my spirit and whatever happens, happens.
 

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